Thursday, November 19, 2009
[Xiang: 2y11m] Completion of 3 year old class . Holiday Program
Tomorrow, Xiang will complete his 3 year old class. I have no regrets of enrolling him so early, although he is a year end baby.
It seems like yesterday, when we took him for his 1st day class. Then he continueously crying for months! He was such a baby (and he still is, as compared to his classmates told by his teacher).
So after a year completed, what does he gain?
1. Friends - towards the end of school semester, teacher commented that he started to chat with friends in class. (haha, teachers don't like this!)
2. Confidence - not a great degree, but he dares to talk with teachers now.
3. Motor skills - hmm, he's still weak in this.
4. Learning - He's good in this, he knows well his phonics and the items which teachers taught.
5. Prizes or Awards - haha, none for my little boy. He is those so-so grade, not too good and not too bad either.
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I have been visiting various schools and centres for holiday classes. I have actually quite keen to enrol him into Bao Bei Chinese Learning.
Wei Xiang doesn't want it. All he wants during the holiday is stay at home and stay with me. When I mentioned about the word "Bao Bei", he will cry immediately. Not those screaming-yelling-cry, but really sad soft sobbing while muttering "我不要去宝贝。。。。我要在家和妈咪一起。。。"
I give up and so, for the coming holiday, I will work out a holiday "program" for him. Well, not those forceful daily schedules. Only one objective in my mind ---> improve his gross & fine motor skills!
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
[Xiang 2y11m; Qi 1y8m] Year End Concert; Tantrum before sleep
We had a good laugh at him when saw him being make-up ... like a girl!
I'm having difficulty with Qi night time. She was so noisy now. Before this, we just put her to her cot, and she'll fall asleep after awhile. For the past few days, she was shouting VERY LOUDLY and I think she did it deliberately. Then she kept on asking for "shh shh" in potty even though we put diaper on her. When we put her on potty, she sat for awhile, then quickly stood up without pee-ing and SMILED at us. This is very annoying especially after N times and already closed to mid-night. Or she'll asked for toys to play but we can see that she's already so sleepy. She just wanted to continue playing. So for these few nights, she was scolded either by me or her daddy, and cried herself to sleep.
Qi cried and screamed just like being forced to take medicine
I received the same complaint from her nanny, that she likes to SHOUT and getting nottier. I knew that she's not those graceful type of girl but all those screaming and shouting really give me headache and ear-pain.
Sunday, October 25, 2009
[Xiang 2y10m; Qi 1y8m] This is the way I wash my car ...
Squeeze squeeze squeeze .....
Scrub scrub scrub .....
Hehe ..... so fun!
meimei digging out the rag while gorgor waiting for his turn to add water in the bucket
See ..... all clean!
How come the bubbles sticked to my hand??? (gosh, she's all wet at this stage and her cloths could twist out water!)
Conclusion: It's FUN for them, but TIRING for the adults!
[Xiang 2y10m] M!
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
[Xiang 2y10m] – 1910 : 3 stitches
This is the day which I’ll never forget. Xiang has his first experience of being stitching up.
I brought Xiang to one of my good friend’s house. It was a happy gathering until Xiang fell down. I was too slow to react and just watching him fell from sofa. I heard a loud sound and knew he hit something.
When I picked him up, I was not able to see his face yet, one of my friend shouted: “OMG! BLOOD!!!”. Xiang was crying furiously “头疼疼!!!”. My brain was blank then. He put his hand over his forehead and I too put mine over his hand. Another friend handed me some tissues, then only I realized both of hands are covered with blood, some dripping into his arms & shirt. I told my friend to send us immediately to clinic.
Xiang was amazingly brave, while we rushed out the door. He has stop crying. I told him that we are going to doctor and he’s going to be alright. He understood and told me that he wanted to go to the doctor.
I am so glad that my friends remained calm. I overheard that they were calling the clinic to confirm the available of the clinic. It was lunch hour and there’s none doctor on call. So we headed to another nearest clinic. It’s at the second floor of a shopping complex.
Once we got down the car, everyone was looking at us. There’s a man who’s so helpful. He opened the door for us and even run to stop the lift for us (the lift’s door was open when we saw it). We headed straight into the clinic though there were lots of patients waiting outside; I guess all doesn’t mind seeing the blood from Xiang’s forehead.
The doctor was superb, speaking softly to Xiang, washed and cleaned his wound. Xiang was brave too when having his stitches – 3 of them. The third one is a bit painful, a little crying from him, then all done.
See, he got the blue-black on Sunday (fell from playground). Then on Monday another scar on his forehead. I hope that his scar will not be permanent.
P/S: He seems not getting his lessons, today he climbed up my window grills, letting go one of his hand to grab the baby powder bottle from my high cabinet. Then second time, he pulled his kiddy table to take down the big swimming pool from the store room. Haiz ….
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
[Xiang 2y9m] Appetite down again
Since I fully took care of Xiang, he has been eating his meal. Slow, but he eats. Last week, I was telling my hubby, my friends and writing in online friends comments boxes that he has been eating well.
The last few days were our nightmares. Sometimes, he didn’t even want to see what’s for lunch or dinner and directly asked us to make milk for him. Sometimes, he just took a bite and immediately clasped his hands over his mouth.
Yesterday, I was so so so furious when he put up the act again when I was trying to feed him.
I told kakak to stay far away from him, and I went to take my own lunch, leaving him alone. He was crying badly in the living hall, calling “mami ... mami ….” but I just ignored him. After a good 20 minutes, I asked kakak to try feeding him. I’ve made up my mind that if he rejected again, he will go on empty stomach! He as if knew I was not going to “manja” him anymore and he finished whole bowl of porridge! It works!
Again, at night, I firmly told him if he’s not eating his dinner, then I’m not going to bring him to see the diggers & dump trucks at the JJ construction site. He finished it.
This morning, I asked him what he wanted for lunch, he replied me mee. So I cooked udon mee for him. After picking him up from school, I firmly told him only after he finished lunch, I will take him to the JJ construction site. It works again!
So now, I’m not going to mention anymore if he’s eating well. Call me superstitious, but I want to be the safe side.
Thursday, October 1, 2009
[Xiang: 2y9m] Finally playing
We curled the wire to a real looooong stick.

Finally, he's playing
Thursday, September 24, 2009
[Xiang 2y9m; Qi 1y7m] Fun fair near Queensbay Mall
I went there to attend my coursemate’s wedding ceremony, a Buddhist wedding ceremony. This is the first ever experience, with charming and monk conducting the ceremony, so special.
At night we make a trip to the fun fair near Queensbay Mall, very nice park indeed, and the kids have so much fun.
[Xiang 2y9m; Qi 1y7m] Lanterns Night
The kids were so happy to meet each other again, all played crazily, laughing and running around. When one asked for milk, the others also followed.
“不要吓我…. 我怕怕!” (Don’t frighten me … I’m scared!) He walked away so far whenever he saw the fireworks sticks being lighted up. I actually feel heart pain, coz I see the shadow of me in him. I am a very timid person; dislike all loud noises and horror movies. Xiang is just like me, sigh …
So he was playing with candles and lanterns all night. As long as he enjoyed himself, I don’t want to push him to accept the fireworks sticks.
Saturday, September 12, 2009
[Qi 1y6m] Big Small Eyes
On Friday morning, I was shocked to see Qi's left eye.
Her left eye's lid was swollen and reddish. She kept on rubbing her left eye while saying "癢癢!". We guess that it's mosquito bite. Since it is time for her to take her 18 months injection, I asked the paed to check on her eyes as well.
On the way to paed visit, she suddenly said this non-stop "BA BEL ..... BA BEL" while trying to reached something behind kakak (Qi sat on kakak's lap). Kakak had no idea what she's talking about and I suddenly realised that kakak didn't put on her safety belt. This little girl was actually trying to say "绑BELT"! We were laughing non-stop and of course kakak had to put on the safety belt (for safety & for Qi!)
When she saw the nice soft-spoken paed, again she cried furiously, worried for his painful poke again. The paed told me that she can't have her 18 months injection until her left eye recovered. The paed did a thorough check on her, pulling up her shirts. Qi continued to cry, screaming "mi ..... mi .....", begging me to help her. She even pulled down her shirt and said "close". Despite the chaos, I found it really funny and can't help laughing out loud.
Today, Saturday, we are relief that Qi's eye is getting better. Not so swollen as before but she still has a pair of "big small" eyes.
Friday, September 4, 2009
[Xiang 2y8m] Udon noddles; Dish washing
[Xiang 2y8m; Qi 1y7m] Playing Time
Their lacing set
Their new Slice & Play set
Their blocks set
Friday, August 28, 2009
[翔2Y8M] 嘴嘴,再见!
这是翔第二次戒奶嘴.第一次,不到3天后我就投降了,他每晚磨到3点都不睡,哭喊着要他的奶嘴.
再动起我的念头是Maggie,在看到她为KIYO再戒奶嘴时,我想也是否应该再试看.真的要多谢她!
翔其实早在一个月前,在奶妈家已经没奶嘴吃了(也很谢谢她!),奶妈也对我说晚上别给他了.可是每天一回到家,翔就找奶嘴吃!
上个星期六(8月22日)晚上,在我姐姐家住了一晚,就对他说奶嘴忘了拿.他哭哭几声就算了,也明白事理的没吵.(在此之前,我一直对他说奶嘴的坏处.)
星期日(8月23日)晚上,回到家,翔自然讨奶嘴,我又对他说了奶嘴的坏处,也对他说奶嘴不见了.他搬椅子四处找-->当然找不到咯! 那晚他磨我陪他玩到12.30才睡.他愿意上床是因为我给他看我红红的眼睛,对他说妈咪眼睛坏了!上床,转转转,翻翻翻,睡了! 哈哈哈!过第二个重要关头!
星期一(8月24日)晚上,上了床关了灯,翔再讨奶嘴.我们提醒他说奶嘴不见了,也提醒他奶嘴的坏处+他3岁了,不该吃奶嘴了.他没出声,转转转,翻翻翻,也睡了! 哈哈哈哈哈哈! 成功了!
直到今天,有的晚上他讨奶嘴吃,我们重复的提醒他,他也不坚持.有的晚上他没讨就睡了!
翔,2岁8月,终于对奶嘴说拜拜了!!!!!!希望真的能成功吧!
Monday, August 17, 2009
[翔2Y7M, 淇1Y6M] 打针. SG LONG H1N1
还好医生给我们进另一间房间,因为只打预防针,不看病,所以不用排队.
问了医生,说不会影响H1N1药物的效力,但这针也只是对平常的伤风感冒有效而已.
为何我还是给孩子们打呢? 因为我听说我们那儿的H1N1很严重.
SG LONG学校关了,因为好多学生受传染,昨天还听到说有位学生去世了!
我们今天也没有给翔上幼儿园了,再看看迟些怎么办吧.我怕怕呀!!!
Thursday, August 6, 2009
翔[2y7m] 翔点滴
"呜~~~ 阿爸,翔弄妈咪. 妈咪脚痛痛"
不要以为翔会”sayang”我,他知道我假假的.
翔还想玩塑胶椅,我坐下不让他拿,看到他要哭了,才甘愿站起来.
可是我忘了他一直拉,所以他就往后跌,手打到门(放心,不是很痛的)
翔: “呜~~~ 阿爸, 妈咪弄翔...手痛痛…”还学我假假哭,手还假假擦眼睛!
翔爹刚好进来房间,翔那里会放过妈咪!
翔嘴巴扁扁的.: “呜~~~ 阿爸, 妈咪…翔弄妈咪...”哈! 他紧张要向爸爸打小报告,句子颠倒了.
再来!
翔: “呜~~~ 阿爸, 翔弄妈咪… 手...”还是错!
哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈! 笑死我了! 爸爸站在那儿一脸不明白.
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作天是十五,翔爹一早就准备拜拜了,当然,还有很八卦的翔.
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翔爹准备了三盘水果,由于苹果不够,所以放了2粒橙在其中一盘.
翔爹把两盘纯苹果的放好神台后,就去忙拿茶杯.还有一盘杂果的就放在翔的小桌子上,想过后才出去放在天宫台.
当翔爹过后要拿剩余的水果, 吓!剩下2粒橙!!!不会吧,翔吃啦??!
咦?嘴巴没有啊??? “翔,苹果呢?”
翔带爸爸到地主公那儿,好卡哉!苹果在那里. “做什么放在这边?”
翔:“一样的…放一起”
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翔爹在烧”大金纸”,翔很”帮忙”的站在爸爸身后,慢条斯里一张张传给爸爸.
爸爸顶不顺他的慢吞吞“翔很慢的… 快点给爸爸…”
翔听后就踩油加速,飞快的把大金纸拿给爸爸.轮到爸爸手忙脚乱了.
翔不耐烦: “阿爸很慢的!!!!!”
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爸爸蹲下来在烧金纸.
突然看到翔也在不远处蹲下来.可是他把其中一只脚伸长放左边,又再把它放右边,又尝试把它缩起来,脸上还有一点点困扰+痛苦.
“翔,脚怎么了?痛啊?”
翔没理会爸爸,一边努力的转换他的脚,一边瞄爸爸. 原来他在学爸爸的蹲法!
哈哈哈哈哈,爸爸笑到没有气!
P/S: 爸爸蹲法:像古时接受国王的恩赐那样蹲下.
再P/S: 我上班了,很可惜,看不到,有爸爸的口述我都笑到眼泪流!
Monday, August 3, 2009
[翔2y7m] YAKULT厂,芙蓉烧包之NO.2校外旅行后感
一大早起床, 翔爹带我和翔吃早餐ROTI CANAI.我对翔说我们要去看YAKULT厂,要去做包包,和老师们一起坐巴士去,就好像上次去动物园般.翔想了想,说:”还有坐TRAIN”.原来他还记得我们上次去动物园乘坐的LRT.
8点,集合,同样的老师训话.望望四周,只认识一对夫妇,3年班参与的学生比上次的少.上了巴士,翔坚持站住,因为坐下他看不到窗外.
过后,我在他们的店里买了烧包,还有一包果子冻,找了个地方做下休息.开了果子冻给翔,他超爱吃.他看到朋友们望着他,自动的跳下椅子派果子冻.朋友吃玩了再向他讨,他也再分,不一会儿,整包分完了.虽然在家,他也很乐意分享他的食物,可是我没想到在外他也很大方.我突然间有点明白,为何有好几位小朋友都很爱照顾他(老师说的),因为他对朋友的体贴,因为他的乐意分享.
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
[Xiang 2y7m] Right, or Wrong
Finally with a sigh, I took off his shoes, put him inside the slide tube, with a light pat on his backside and told him “没有人下来了… Go Go Go!!!” He reacted like an animal with his chain untied, dashing up the slide. When he reached the top and emerged from the tube, he waved to us and gave us a big bright smile.
Seeing him like this makes me think again. We adults are making and following all the rules. Who says the slide can be only played one way sliding down? Why not going up instead? The kid is creative in his playing while all I think of is “that is not right”. I’ve sent him to music class in order to expose him to creativity, but I’m blocking him in real life, aren’t it contradictory?
I still have a lot to learn about holding back my “no”s and my “don’t”s. The straighter I am with my boy, the more he’ll resist. I guess that if he did hurt himself along the way, it’s just part of growing, and even if so, he’ll learn from it. Who actually went through childhood without a scratch? If I did not give in to his wishes earlier on, I wonder how the story would end? Dragging a crying toddler back home most probably and I’ll sure miss his big bright smile!
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Monday, July 13, 2009
[Qi 1y4m; Xiang 2y6m] Hair trim
Monday, July 6, 2009
[Qi 1y4m] Wei Qi Progress at 1 year 4 months

Speech:
1. Started to learn to speak with us, mixture of Mandarine, English and even Kantonese.
2 words are the most, eg. “mami”, “daddy”, "bao-bao", “kakak”, “dog”, “cat”, “duck”, “姨”, “popo”, “gong-gong”, “bird”, "no-mo" (no more), “aplan” (airplane), “an~ti” (aunty – her nanny), “oh o” (when something goes wrong), “chuo chuo” (sit down), “要” (want), “na” (same word she said when she wanted to give us something or she wanted us to give her something), “oofih” (Office - this learnt from her brother as Xiang will ask us to “go office” if he thinks that we are “naughty”), “臭臭” (smelly – after she poo she’ll say it with hands waving in front of her nose), “ne neh” (milk - she said this so many times a day!), “mumm mumm”
2. She understands some of the words we spoke even though couldn’t say it out. For example when I asked her to squad, she will do so (when washing her bottom). Others like clock, fan, light etc …
2. Loves yogurt and Ribena pastilles. But dislike plain water (after a few sips, she'll say "okay" and refused to drink anymore), loves all the other fruit juices, Chinese leong sui and barley drink. She can swallow medicine without fuss but don’t think she likes it as much as her brother. Learned to Loves French fries from her brother also.
3. Having her 6 oz milk at 3 hours interval, and has a trend of requesting milk at a shorter period (1~2 hours). Tonight, she drank milk at 7.30pm, 9.30pm and at 10.30pm. I was worried whether her little stomach could take so much liquid!
1. She also loves water play, can splash the water so well that makes all of us wet!
2. She loves to flip the book pages, but has no patient in waiting for me to finish a story with her.
3. She loves humbling to the songs in her own words, rocking her body and clapping hands when listening to songs.
4. She loves the slide and the swing, loves the musical kiddy rides, and loves to turn the wheel of the rides.
Toys:
1. Her favorite toy is anything with a cap, an empty syrup medicine plastic bottle with cap for example. She loves putting the cap back and opens it up again.
2. Loves to watched children songs, and sometimes even dance with the songs.
3. Loves “masak-masak”, plates, cups, spoons and loves to play pretend with us.
4. She loves to doodle, not on the board but on the floor!
1. She can walk very steadily now, she couldn’t jump but trying to.
2. Pushed the kiddy car around the house with her legs very steadily.
Not yet toilet-trained, but we do let her sit in potty and did not wear her the diaper at home and at nanny’s home. She will say a nose sound “eemhh” when she wants to poo and sometimes will walk to her potty. After pee in potty, she'll look at the potty and praises herself by smiling & clapping hands (coz we did this every time and she follows us).
1. She loves to snatch the toys from her brother. Disregard that she’s younger, she can certainly win over her brother. She can do a tug war and grasp the toy firmly with her two strong little hands. She’s very persistent and patients and do not give up easily.
2. She’s starting to develop a bad habit of crying. Once we did not fulfill her wishes, she will sit down or lay backwards with her arms supported at her side and cry! (Our fault actually in developing this bad habit)
3. She tends to hit her brother with her hand whenever her brother did something which makes her angry. She knew it’s not right but it’s becoming a habit of her. (I actually was wondering, where did she learnt it from? From us? But we never hit Xiang now and of course, we never hit her.)
4. She loves to wash hand (er, actually playing with water), whenever she heard any of us is washing our hands, she will came with her hands rubbing together while saying “xi … xi …”
5. From baby, she sleeps on her own in her crib, no need to pat or cuddle and after we switch off the lights, she will lay down and sleep on her own.
6. She will get jealous easily if saw her brother sitting / lying on me and will demand to have her share of "mummy" immediately.
7. She loves to be pretty. She'll say "美美" if she's dressed up prettily, then will smile and look for others to praise her. She'll cry if we remove her "pretty stuff".
Not much major problems, had her chicken pox at 1 year 3 months.
1. She will stomp her feet with joy when seeing us in the evening at nanny’s house, then will laugh out very loudly with her little index finger pointing at her nose or pointing up, also will shout “mi …. mi …. “ non-stop (but there are times she mixed up the words and shout “an~ti”). Once I took her in my arms, she will kiss my cheek while making sound “mmmmm” (always make my heart melts when she did this).
2. Whenever we finished singing our songs, she will be the first to applause us by clapping her hands. If we sung birthday songs, she will held up her 2 arms high up and says “yeah”!
3. When I told her to hold her voice down or when her brother is sleeping, she will put her index finger to her mouth & blow air ^_^ She doesn’t know how to say “shhh …” yet.
4. She loves to be tickles by her daddy and will request for many many times by saying “yah …” “yah …” (I think she wants to say 要)
5. She loves to put the coins in the piggy bank.
6. Loves to wear shoes even inside the house. She usually requests us to wear and take off her shoes for uncountable times.
7. She’s good in messing up the house. She loves to take out every single toys she can accessed to. Took out all the puzzles and the vehicles from their boxes and cabinet.
8. When she heard that we are ready to go up the bedroom, she'll get up and walk to the staircase and start climbing.
